如何婉拒好心人的教學? - 游泳討論

By David
at 2010-03-09T03:12
at 2010-03-09T03:12
Table of Contents
標題有點難下 ...
代問
============================
狀況是這樣的
兩個女大生 A女 & B女 相約晨泳
其中A女出發點是為了練早起 嚴格來講只會仰式 (因為不會換氣)
而B女則是想瘦身 會基本的蛙式跟自由式
通常 這兩位到了泳池後
大概有一半的時間是拿著浮板來回踢水(暖身?)
剩下一半的時間 A女在一旁練換氣跟姿勢 B女自行去游
狀況來了
她們大約一禮拜游個1.2次 都會遇到一位中高年男子(應該有50up)
會很積極且主動的教學..
A女的想法: 有熱心教練可以趁機學游泳還不賴 但很擔心被吃豆腐而不自知
B女的想法: 我只想輕鬆的游 管他姿勢正不正確 希望別來干擾我
而這位男子 觸碰程度大概是:
抓腳踝 彎膝蓋 碰腰 輕拍大腿 扶持小腹跟臀部周圍(敎蛙腳)
然後曾經因為提醒一個動作 一度來回滑過大腿
除此之外 動作講解跟示範都挺正常的
現在的問題是:
1. 論教學 肢體的觸碰大概到什麼樣的程度算是正常?
=> 因為沒學過游泳 怕小題大做 但也怕吃悶虧還在忍
2. 若是覺得不舒服 什麼樣的詞語婉拒比較適當?
=> 不希望氣氛尷尬 讓男子覺得都這把年紀了還亂吃豆腐
3. 如果 今天你很好心的替陌生人教學
卻換來對方一句"你可以講解就好 不要觸碰到我嗎?"
會讓你有厭惡或是不爽的感覺嗎?
怎樣的表達方式 會讓你還願意口頭講解 卻不手動去矯正對方姿勢?
這問題也不知道哪個版問比較恰當 還希望這邊能夠得到一些回應
感謝 <(_ _)>
--
補充:
B女曾含蓄的告知 "不是要練比賽的 隨便游游而已"
男子回答 "可是你這樣姿勢不對 應該要怎樣怎樣 %^&#@~~ "
好像 沒啥暗示到的感覺...
--
代問
============================
狀況是這樣的
兩個女大生 A女 & B女 相約晨泳
其中A女出發點是為了練早起 嚴格來講只會仰式 (因為不會換氣)
而B女則是想瘦身 會基本的蛙式跟自由式
通常 這兩位到了泳池後
大概有一半的時間是拿著浮板來回踢水(暖身?)
剩下一半的時間 A女在一旁練換氣跟姿勢 B女自行去游
狀況來了
她們大約一禮拜游個1.2次 都會遇到一位中高年男子(應該有50up)
會很積極且主動的教學..
A女的想法: 有熱心教練可以趁機學游泳還不賴 但很擔心被吃豆腐而不自知
B女的想法: 我只想輕鬆的游 管他姿勢正不正確 希望別來干擾我
而這位男子 觸碰程度大概是:
抓腳踝 彎膝蓋 碰腰 輕拍大腿 扶持小腹跟臀部周圍(敎蛙腳)
然後曾經因為提醒一個動作 一度來回滑過大腿
除此之外 動作講解跟示範都挺正常的
現在的問題是:
1. 論教學 肢體的觸碰大概到什麼樣的程度算是正常?
=> 因為沒學過游泳 怕小題大做 但也怕吃悶虧還在忍
2. 若是覺得不舒服 什麼樣的詞語婉拒比較適當?
=> 不希望氣氛尷尬 讓男子覺得都這把年紀了還亂吃豆腐
3. 如果 今天你很好心的替陌生人教學
卻換來對方一句"你可以講解就好 不要觸碰到我嗎?"
會讓你有厭惡或是不爽的感覺嗎?
怎樣的表達方式 會讓你還願意口頭講解 卻不手動去矯正對方姿勢?
這問題也不知道哪個版問比較恰當 還希望這邊能夠得到一些回應
感謝 <(_ _)>
--
補充:
B女曾含蓄的告知 "不是要練比賽的 隨便游游而已"
男子回答 "可是你這樣姿勢不對 應該要怎樣怎樣 %^&#@~~ "
好像 沒啥暗示到的感覺...
--
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