和男/女朋友一起打羽球 - 羽球
By Sandy
at 2011-10-27T13:20
at 2011-10-27T13:20
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這是我最近的困擾
Po出來請各位厲害的球友們幫忙解惑
我和男友是今年初在學校打球認識而交往的
因為當時球場上只有我們兩個年紀相仿
就會一起搭配打混雙 勝率也頗高 默契越搭越好之下就成為男女朋友了
我球齡兩年 他一年 但他進步很快 程度大約一般校隊中等
原PO則是某大學新生盃女雙冠軍
現在的問題是
交往之前一起搭混雙都搭的很開心
感覺很自然就默契很好就打贏對手了
但現在常常會吵架(不管輸贏都會吵)
而且他失誤一些很莫名的地方我都沒說話
可是我失誤或什麼的他都會小念我一下
到了場下就開始跟我檢討剛剛那場比賽我的觀念哪裡有問題
跑位哪裡錯誤 哪一球沒有封網害他殺球很費力氣
說這樣是為了我好 為了讓我進步
他羽球學得快是因為看比賽影片看很勤
我則是只喜歡PLAY 這些觀念主要都是聽他分享
而且我們都很愛打羽球 常常約會約一約就會想回球場打個過癮
所以也不可能叫我們不打球當作解決方法
但這樣被他念久了也會煩 有一次我們打一組男雙 19:21輸了
他一下場就說我做肉包球給人家殺球
我就吼他說"你發球少失誤兩球我們剛剛就贏了"
他就不爽 說我怎麼這樣講話 他只是提醒我做球給人家殺 我卻嗆他的失誤多
我也覺得很委屈 因為他那一場失誤很多球 我場上都跟他說沒有關係了
沒想到卻是該我被念還不能回嘴?! 當下就罵回去了
後來當然是好了 可是有幾次當下氣氛還真是火藥味十足
我們還蠻常搭的 其實打起來也都不錯 但他就是希望我再更好
而且各自跟別的夥伴搭配也都不會吵架 只有跟對方搭的時候會爭論很多事情
想請問各位
如果我們想要永續打混雙又不要那麼愛吵架
有沒有什麼解決的辦法呢?
歡迎踴躍推文或回文分享自己經驗囉!
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