有一種失落叫做球后輸球 - 羽球
By Ophelia
at 2019-07-26T17:48
at 2019-07-26T17:48
Table of Contents
寫在前面:
1. 這是一篇不專業的心理輔導分析(字有點多)
2.看了小戴的IG和版友的留言有些想法想分享
3.我愛小戴也愛小茜(?
4.恭喜文珊復仇成功
5.恭喜小茜登上后位
今天身體不舒服,早上睡過了小戴的比賽直播,大約中午的時候看到的比賽結果。
不可否認,我很失落。
失落的原因主要有兩個:
1.球后危機
2.輸給有傷的李文珊
第一點帶給我的情緒是難過、可惜,因為「我想」讓小戴繼續破紀錄下去,「我覺得」這
是台灣體壇的榮耀。
第二點帶給我的是害怕,「我覺得」小戴「應該要」贏,畢竟有大幅度的勝率,何況對手
有傷,但是他輸了,我害怕小戴「變弱」了,很害怕她找不到失敗的原因,無法再次登上
巔峰。
若有文珊的球迷看了不舒服先說聲抱歉,這只是一個外行球迷的不專業揣測,非刻意否定
文珊的實力。
回到「球迷的失落感」,主要的來源在於「應該」兩個字。
什麼叫應該?就是「一定要」。
那沒有怎麼辦?沒有就「糟糕了」。
用粗淺的心理學派分析簡而言之:
錯誤的認知(小戴應該要贏),引起我個人的情緒(難過、可惜、害怕)
在理情學派中,這種錯誤的認知稱為「非理性信念」,你所認為的「理所當然」都不是「
理所當然」,你被理所當然所傷害而得到的情緒當然也不是「理所當然」。
並不是要否定自己的情緒(拜托一定要接納,那是解決困擾的第一步),而是要改變自己
的非理性信念,讓自己得到的情緒不再是不好的那一類。就算是不好的,也是能夠克服的
不好。
球后的也會輸球,輸給任何人,球后有結束的一天,球迷的期待,小戴接受是情分,不接
受是本分。
小戴繼續加油,喜歡看你快樂打球,我們支持你是心甘情願的,覺得失落也是心甘情願的
。
分享一下今天抗戰成功的人們。雅思今天也輸了,世界第一不孤單,有輸有贏是競技的美
麗。
https://i.imgur.com/1YSfxDt.jpg
好了我要去接納自己的情緒了,怒吃拿波里當晚餐。
--
1. 這是一篇不專業的心理輔導分析(字有點多)
2.看了小戴的IG和版友的留言有些想法想分享
3.我愛小戴也愛小茜(?
4.恭喜文珊復仇成功
5.恭喜小茜登上后位
今天身體不舒服,早上睡過了小戴的比賽直播,大約中午的時候看到的比賽結果。
不可否認,我很失落。
失落的原因主要有兩個:
1.球后危機
2.輸給有傷的李文珊
第一點帶給我的情緒是難過、可惜,因為「我想」讓小戴繼續破紀錄下去,「我覺得」這
是台灣體壇的榮耀。
第二點帶給我的是害怕,「我覺得」小戴「應該要」贏,畢竟有大幅度的勝率,何況對手
有傷,但是他輸了,我害怕小戴「變弱」了,很害怕她找不到失敗的原因,無法再次登上
巔峰。
若有文珊的球迷看了不舒服先說聲抱歉,這只是一個外行球迷的不專業揣測,非刻意否定
文珊的實力。
回到「球迷的失落感」,主要的來源在於「應該」兩個字。
什麼叫應該?就是「一定要」。
那沒有怎麼辦?沒有就「糟糕了」。
用粗淺的心理學派分析簡而言之:
錯誤的認知(小戴應該要贏),引起我個人的情緒(難過、可惜、害怕)
在理情學派中,這種錯誤的認知稱為「非理性信念」,你所認為的「理所當然」都不是「
理所當然」,你被理所當然所傷害而得到的情緒當然也不是「理所當然」。
並不是要否定自己的情緒(拜托一定要接納,那是解決困擾的第一步),而是要改變自己
的非理性信念,讓自己得到的情緒不再是不好的那一類。就算是不好的,也是能夠克服的
不好。
球后的也會輸球,輸給任何人,球后有結束的一天,球迷的期待,小戴接受是情分,不接
受是本分。
小戴繼續加油,喜歡看你快樂打球,我們支持你是心甘情願的,覺得失落也是心甘情願的
。
分享一下今天抗戰成功的人們。雅思今天也輸了,世界第一不孤單,有輸有贏是競技的美
麗。
https://i.imgur.com/1YSfxDt.jpg
好了我要去接納自己的情緒了,怒吃拿波里當晚餐。
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